Sorry for not replying sooner. I finally did get the car fixed and running again. But learned a lesson. Never assume you found the true problem and put the whole car back together only to find out, it really was the head gasket. What happened was I thought we found the leak - the water pump gasket where it is 1/4" from the timing cover gasket. The picture shows the gunk between the two gaskets, which I assumed was the culprit. (Either way, it needed to be replaced)
WQell I fixed it, reinstalled the engine - and then found out I was still getting collant in the oil. Sheesh. I should have done a pressure check either on the cooling system or the cylinders. Either one would have shown me there was a problem. But . . .
On side note, in case you're wondering why I took the engine out just for the timing cover gasket, I actually needed to replace the clutch. So taking the engine out was a lot easier.
Second side note, I had put in a new clutch last summer. But I needed to replace it because it was JUNK. Rattled like heck. O'Reilly was supposed to have ordered in the better grade part, but instead screwed up and got the cheap one. I was time limited, so I had to use it. What a mistake. But now all is well, the new clutch is great. Got it from Carquest - and got the better grade part. Worth the extra $80. BTW, I put the clutch in last summer with the engine in the car. It was more work, but a lot easier to do it with the engine out of the car.
So (back to the story) I got it back in the garage and took the head off and found the problem - a broken head bolt. Then I found a huge problem. The bolt was broken off about one inch below the top of the head. Since this is a GT (2zz) model, there are not that many replacement engines out there. So faced with the likely scenario that the car was totalled, my friend came up with an idea. He found a "guide", a hollow tube that was almost the same O.D. and the head bolt diameter. And an I.D. big enough for a ~1/8" drill bit. We wrapped some tape around the tube to get a tight fit, put it into the bolt hole and was actually able to drill into the broken stud and back it out (without hitting the threads in the engine block)! Hurrah!! and a big Yippee!
I really like my Vibe and hated to lose it. And I didn't. I got it all back together and only had about 4-5 bolts left over.

It is now running just fine and just as fast/peppy/and fun as ever. Thanks again to this great site for all the help everyone gives.