I'll try and list everything I use and such, hope this helps. When washing the car, I do stick with a microfiber wash mitt and microfiber Water Magnet waffle pattern towel. The car wash itself is a little trickier. For me there are two that work the best. One is the Mother's California Gold Car Wash (first picture), it works well and does not contain a lot of those waxes that you speak of. Nowadays a lot of car washes include some kind of wax polymer because people are lazy and don't want to hassle with car care. The other which I try to use is the Meguiar's Gold Class version (second picture), they offer a NXT Generation Car Wash as well but for me I tend to stick to anything that is a amber tint to the liquid. I will also admit I do break the rule when BIG detail time comes twice a year and put a dash of Dawn (not Joy, or any other brand, Dawn is the safest) into the bucket in order to really strip the waxes off. Clay barring will do this also, but if you don't use a lot of Dawn very often, and follow the detailing process right after, the effects are non-existent.When Clay Barring the car, I really don't feel it is necessary to buy the best kit out there. Clay is clay and the sprays do not matter that much. Meguiar's uses a bottle of their Quick Detailer whereas Clay Magic is a soap style lubricant, Meg's kit is like $15-$20. I use Clay Magic, it's $9 and I only use one bar per car, once its done I throw the clay away.When it comes to polishing and swirl removal, compounding is out! Not many people use this form anymore as technology and polymers have come into play. When you polish/swirl remove, you are literally taking away very fine layers of clear coat. Think of your clear coat as a knife edge with ridges and such, they are not all the same so you see swirling, with polish you even that out and make a smooth flat surface. Meguiar's offers a large range of polishes and removers depending on how bad your paint is. For the Professional line of products they all come in tan colored bottles with no frills logos. Their 3 Step process however is in shiny red bottles that you find at your local auto supply store (aka Auto Zone). I have used the red 3 Step but if you truly want a professional shine and cleaning, stick with the tan. They are available online at places such as
http://www.autogeek.net or
http://www.autodetailingsolutions.com. Here below you can see Step 1 for the consumer brand is the Deep Crystal Paint Cleaner (pictured first). This product safely removes road grime, surface contamination, light oxidation, swirls and light scratches to restore damaged and dull finishes. It works great for lighter cars such as silver metallics. If you have deeper swirling and scratching then I go with the big boy heavy duty stuff called Meguiar's #83 Dual Action Cleaner/Polish. This stuff is insane when it comes to removing swirling and scratches. You will notice the ruler bar on the left of the bottle (pictured second), this gives the user a scale of the abrasiveness and type of swirling it can remove. You really don't wanna go above this product unless your car is totally oxidized. It can get out most anything. Typically they will recommend using a lighter polish (mentioned next) and if that does not work, going to #83. It is a very tough product to work into the paint, takes 15-20lbs. of pressure on the machine to work in, must be used in small areas 2'x2' or smaller and taken off immediately or it dries and becomes a pain. But the results are incredible and you may even have a bit of fine swirling afterwards which can be taken out by the next step.Now moving onto the actual polishing to make the paint ready for wax. Meguiar's Step 2 Deep Crystal System Polish (first picture) does the trick for the everyday consumer in cleaning and is not a wax, but it also doesn’t cut. It is a pure polish that conditions and nourishes the paint and creates a nice deep, wet-look shine. On the other side I use the Meguiar's #80 Speed Glaze (second picture). Note the scale on the left of the bottl and how it is lower than #83 as I mentioned above. This will do incredible things to your paint. The wetness and shine is incredible and your car feels like it is already waxed after applying this. It removes light swirling, fine marks, and really gets the paint to explode. #80 also works fast and with a little elbow grease can really do wonders to a cars finish in protecting it.Now onto the fun stuff, waxing! Nothing pleases me more than getting to this step and letting it sit, dry, and watch the shine that pops when your done! Typically you would jump to Meguiar's Step 3 Deep Crystal System Carnauba Wax (first picture) but I did not. I went for the Meguiar's Gold Class Liquid Wax (second picture). This stuff is so good they actually put it in a box for you to open to get to the bottle, lol. But seriously, this has been my final step wax of choice for over 5 years now. It allows you to shave using your hood as a mirror, and that's no joke, it's serious shine. I have since moved on to something that is even crazier. If you have metallic fleck in your paint, there is only one thing to make it gleam. Meguiar's NXT Generation Tech Wax (third picture). Gold Class is a pure wax while NXT is a polymer wax and man does it shine. At $18 for a 16oz. bottle it really is worth money. It too comes in its own box but this box is very shiny, just like the bottle inside is shiny, and it smells great! Again if you have a metallic fleck or dark colored finish on your car, this is the stuff to get, hands down you will not be dissappointed.I hope this gave you some insight to the products available for washing, polishing, waxing. This only covers paint care products and not the how-to. Either the Professional (tan) or Consumer (red) brands can be done either by hand or by machine. I use a Meguiar's G100 Dual Action Orbital Polisher (pictured below) which is the same as the Porter Cable 7424 but it comes with a lifetime Meguiar's warranty. They run about $150 but you can get them on ebay sometimes for a little cheaper. I use only Meguiar's pads, typically their #8006 polishing pad and their #9006 buffing pad for the final wax application. It has adjustable speeds 1-6 of which 5 and 3 are the most used. When doing things by hand I recommend using a foam applicator pad instead of microfiber and terry cloths. The foam breaks the product down better and gives you a more consistent and thorough coating. When removing the product always ALWAYS use a microfiber towel and use different parts of it. Make sure you keep one towel for each product and do not mix and match. Enjoy!