tpar1220 - Wow, you're not kidding. I watched vehicle specific install videos from eTrailers and Curt mfg, it really is a bolt in. Do you have any pictures of your vibe with the trailer attached?
Baltovibe - Thanks for the heads up. That does look a little spooky. I'll just be extra careful in the install process. I have a hard time believing the fuse didn't blow. They probably wired it directly to the battery. The kind of current it would take to melt plastic like that would burn up wiring and definitely blow a fuse. The module doesn't have any large capacitors or anything that would store that much energy either. Something else was going on there.
Well I decided to go with a Curt 12228. It was the only one I could find that was 'hidden'. It has the added benefit of being a class 2 hitch.
Here is the hidden look of the Curt hitch
And here is an alternative, I believe this one is a Draw Tite
I'll keep you guys updated. Thanks for all the input.