I figured out my shaking !!! It was .................... the lug nuts!!!! I bought 4 new wheels(rims) and they came with new lug nuts that "are made for your car" and when I had my tires put on they switched out my lug nuts... and its been shaking ever sense.... well after the beads not fixing the problem...I thought to my self.... what little things could make this happen.... my old lug nuts weren't very old... only about 2-4 months old.. so i said what the hey...ill jack up the car and swap all them back to the old new ones... and poof!!! the vibe doesn't even shake going 90mph...

... I just got back from a 4 hour tip to 6flags great america and the vibe drove like a dream once again

.... but sadly i think i'm going to need to get ANOTHER alignment sense the nuts are fixed... it pulls to the right just a LITTLE... but that can wait till i do the rear suspension and hubs in the following weeks..