need to vent for a moment childish people

[Raivis]

y is it that when to try to do something that is hard anyways its gotta end up worse then it should have. my wife babysits in our home. recently a "friend" that she babysits for decided that they could pay us whenever they wanted. they recently were three weeks behind. my wife decided that was it and she couldn't watch the little girl anymore. she told them that and that she would give them two or three weeks to find another babysitter. they decide that we are the bad guys and started talking all this crap to us. im waiting to hear that he is saying stuff behind our backs. another problem is that, at the moment i work with him. he is being childish about it. acting like he is hott stuff and he is perfect. and i think he threatened me indirectly. i never considered him a great friend but he was a pretty good friend. he lies alot and everyone knows he is full of crap. but i just ignore his stories. i have been feeling like he has been using us anyways.my wife is totally upset. so bad that she is sick bcof the stress. the way he is i don't really care that we aint hanging out anymore. he would just come over and drink all my beer anyways.i know it sounds like im wineing but oh well had to get some other opions and can't put anything on myspace bc they are on my friends list.

[zionzr2]

Sorry to hear!broken and betrayed friendships always hurt!

[futureviber]

I hate when people are like that. They need to just pay up. if they had just paid it would have not been a big deal. Good luck. Theres people like that everywhere. Always need to be the victim or feel that then have been wronged, no matter what actually happened. Ive been in similar situations and no matter how good of friends or not good of friends it still hurts and is bothersome.

[tribalman]

livejournal.comhehe. i kid i kid. (just to try and lighten the mood a bit, sucks being stuck in a crappy situation)i know how this goes. there are just crappy people like this in the world, just try and avoid them and their garbage and try not to let it affect your life. find the good people (wait, already found us as genvibe.com hehe) and have them in your circle of friends. as for the baby sitting, that is your wife's job. i wouldn't like it if my jobs stopped paying me or was behind on the payment. same with the banks for the loan on my car. hm.. interesting idea. don't make the car payments, bank takes the car. if they don't pay for the baby sitting, can you repo the child? (totally meant as a joke again. this is called kidnapping. i think it's illegal in most states.)hope you get this situation resolved with as little stress and garbage as possible and all goes well for you and your wife. good luck.

[renate]

All you can do for people like that is pray for them.

[keithvibe]

two rules... never work for friends or familyand never lend money to friends or family

[Raivis]

yeah shouldn't have done it but i thought he had grown up and was a decent person now. guess i was wrong. well ill see how it goes in the next couple of days. his wife has calmed down but he usually doesn't. he thinks bc he is bigger then everyone that he can control them.