Don't know if you are looking for doors with electric or manual lock&window but a quick look at car-part.com shows there's both black doors (electric) at Black Diamond Auto parts,
http://www.blackdiamondauto.com/ Didn't search for the wheel molding. They certainly seem within striking range from the Seattle area
I have no affiliation with that junkyard, and as they are about 2800 miles from me, it seems unlikely that I ever will
Sucks they want to total it, but understandable given the car's age and what a professional body shop would charge to restore the damage to like new condition. Seems like insurance never provides as much for a totaled car as it is worth to the owner