Page 1 of 1

Room for one more at Gatlinburg :-(

Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2008 11:33 pm
by Whelan
Well yesterday turned out to be a horrible terrible day. Two weeks till the wedding we had just found a great apartment. She dropped the bomb on me. I know she has been nervous about wedding stuff. But yesterday it came to a stand still.I won't get into details as some is privacy and I know you will respect that. But know this; nobody cheated, nobody was abusive. There is no polishing this up or making things better, it just is what it is.So if you have an opening for Gatlinburg for one more, The Trix will be cleaned and ready.

Re: Room for one more at Gatlinburg :-( (Whelan)

Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2008 11:46 pm
by keithvibe
sure do.. keep us postedand you have my info..

Re: Room for one more at Gatlinburg :-( (Whelan)

Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 2:26 am
by joholste
wow bud sorry to hear that....I hope you can make it down to gatlinburg

Re: Room for one more at Gatlinburg :-( (Whelan)

Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 3:20 am
by Toasted7
Sorry to hear that... always room for one more!

Re: Room for one more at Gatlinburg :-( (Whelan)

Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 3:20 am
by BlueCrush
Sorry to hear, Adam. Things happen for a reason. Hopefully everything will work out in the end.

Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 4:20 am
by AKLGT
oh snap. well, from experience, if she's not quite ready, than it's better to wait and not rush into anything. I know I have done that long ago in the past and it ended horribly. I would have rather found out BEFORE the wedding vs after, however as one of my friends found, they postponed theirs for almost a year and everything worked out great. they just needed more time figuring things out with themselves before they felt ready to be able to put forth the necessary effort a marriage requires. that was about 3 yrs ago and happy to say they are doing well, have a little one now and both happy they didn't rush into it like they had originally planned. So, crossing my fingers to you, hopefully yours comes out well in the end.

Re: (AKLGT)

Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 5:42 am
by 808 Vibes
Oh no...I'm sorry to hear that. Maybe it was the stress of moving, the wedding, etc. all at once and she got cold feet. I hope she will think things over and you two can work things out!

Re: Room for one more at Gatlinburg :-( (Whelan)

Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 6:29 am
by kevera
Sorry to hear Bro.Hope everything is OK on the home front.If you do make it down to Gatlinburg,the drinks are on me.

Re: Room for one more at Gatlinburg :-( (kevera)

Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 7:11 am
by keithvibe
Quote, originally posted by kevera »If you do make it down to Gatlinburg,the drinks are on me.HEAR that EVERYONE... Kevin is buying drinks LOL what a nice guy.. lol

Re: Room for one more at Gatlinburg :-( (keithvibe)

Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 7:32 am
by moongdss
Woot for free drinks!Sorry to hear this bombed Whelan I hope it works itself out, or you at least get so drunk you can't feel anything for a bit.Sometimes medicinal alcohol use is warranted

Re: Room for one more at Gatlinburg :-( (moongdss)

Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 10:29 pm
by Whelan
Came to work today to keep busy. I'm surprisingly doing pretty well. There is not going to be any reconciliation on this one folks.My family and friends have been overly supportive. My cousin Becky is gonna come make the trip out there with me, kinda a mini-vacation road trip. I'm working the details out today but we may stop by Nashville on our way out for a night. I"ll keep you posted.

Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 11:17 pm
by Sublimewind
That sucks homie, BUT, you are young and HOT, so I dount this "problem" will last long... Back in the game... not that you wanted to be, but in the game none-the-less.. Keep ya head up bro...

Re: Room for one more at Gatlinburg :-( (Whelan)

Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 11:19 pm
by ToolGuy
Dang Adam, I am sorry to hear this. However like the others have said better now than later. I did not get married until I was 30. It took me that long to get through college, get a job, move and find my wife. I do not regret it at all and I matured in the meantime. You only want to do this once and what to know exactly what you want and she the same.